This test looks at which expression of love actually reaches you. Below are all 12 questions and options—choose the answer that makes you feel most loved.
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Question 1 Receiving a message from my partner, what makes me happiest?
- AHe says “you're amazing”.
- BHe takes time to chat with me.
- CHe casually does me a favor.
- DHe brings me a small gift.
- EHe sends a hugging emoji.
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Question 2 Which kind of being loved do I remember most?
- AHe praises and affirms me.
- BHe puts the phone down and really listens.
- CHe quietly does the chores.
- DHe remembers to give me gifts.
- EHe holds my hand.
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Question 3 On a date, what matters most to me?
- AHe gets me and says so.
- BWe spend the whole evening together.
- CHe plans well and takes care of me.
- DThere's ritual and surprise.
- EJust being close.
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Question 4 For my birthday I most want…
- AA heartfelt long letter.
- BA whole day that's just ours.
- CHim handling what stresses me.
- DA thoughtful gift.
- EA long hug.
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Question 5 After a fight, what reconciles us?
- AHim saying “you matter to me”.
- BHim initiating a real talk.
- CHim showing it through action.
- DHim making up with a small gift.
- EA hug that says more than words.
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Question 6 My way of showing love leans toward…
- APraising out loud often.
- BGiving him my time.
- CCaring through actions.
- DBuying him things.
- EPhysical closeness.
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Question 7 While apart, what heals me most?
- AHis encouraging words.
- BA long video call.
- CHim handling things remotely for me.
- DA surprise package in the mail.
- EThe hug when we meet.
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Question 8 The line that gets me most?
- A“I'm proud of you.”
- B“I'll stay with you tonight.”
- C“I cooked dinner.”
- D“Bought you something you like.”
- E“Come here, hug.”
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Question 9 In front of friends, I'm most fed by…
- AHim praising me openly.
- BHim joking and laughing with me all night.
- CHim taking care of me.
- DHim giving me little things.
- EHim keeping an arm around me.
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Question 10 When stressed, I most want…
- ATo hear “it's okay, I'm here”.
- BHim sitting with me a while.
- CHim doing the thing for me.
- DHim buying my favorite.
- ETo lean on his shoulder.
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Question 11 What I cherish on an anniversary?
- AThe card he wrote.
- BThe time he set aside.
- CThe dinner he prepared.
- DThe gift he picked.
- EHis kiss.
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Question 12 To me, “being loved” is…
- ABeing affirmed in words.
- BBeing given full attention.
- CBeing cared for in action.
- DBeing remembered with gifts.
- EBeing touched tenderly.
The point is not how you prefer to give love, but what makes you receive it.